Introduction to Ebook titled 10 Quick Ways to be More Confident With Women
A brief overview of the eBook’s purpose.
There you are, I’ve been waiting on you, welcome! Congratulations on taking one, two, and three tip toes in the sand departing the dry beach of insecurity; towards the parch fulfilling waters of a more confident you!
This eBook will be your guide, your personal liaison, to unlocking the power of dispelling limited self-belief and transforming your daily interactions with the world around you. I am going to give you 10 quick ways to be more confident with women.
Let me ask you something, and feel free to be real with yourself. After all why not, you’re the only one reading this to yourself right now, right?!
Have you ever felt out of place or kind of not your self around someone who you feel physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually attracted to?
Have you ever struggled or do you currently struggle with self-doubt or that nagging inner critic in your head? You know the one that consistently holds you back? The one that constantly tells you all the negative things about yourself.
The same one consistently spewing rhetoric about why you can’t, shouldn’t, or won’t do what you actually really want to do? It could be your heart’s content but you’re constantly talked out of it, ain’t that bitch.
Well, like Michael Jackson sang, you are not not alone. I am here with you. And luckily I’ve brought out my special bag of advice on this particular subject with the sole purpose of enlightening you to the truth which is that confidence is a superpower that can elevate your life in more ways than I cant fit I can fit rings on my fingers.
Just in case you’re wondering, this book isn’t a collection of quick fixes, slick whispers of nothings, or lottery tickets that you’ll never even get the opportunity to cash. You can’t just head down to the as seen on TV store and grab a bag of this. In this book, we won’t just go surface level, we’ll go deeper.
We’re going to delve decently deep into the core principles of ever lasting confidence. We will do this with the intention of equipping you with practical strategies to cultivate self-assurance from the inside out.
Here’s what you can expect to discover on this journey:
The Foundations of Confidence:
If you really sit back and examine yourself daily, especially in your most anxious moments, you’ll notice a significant amount of negative self talk. Well guess what? We’ll explore how to fade and potentially even silence this negative self-talk you experience.
I will not make you do a rendition of the old fake jewelry trick, you know, fake it to you make it. What we are going to do is something that will have longevity in your confidence lifeline. We are are going to actually identify your real and actual strengths and show you how to make them enablers in the confident mindset that you seek to have.
The truth is we all have unique qualities, some individual’s are just much clearer than others. You might have to dust yours off a bit, but what doesn’t come out in the wash surely will come out in the rinse.
Since the majority of communication is non verbal, we will also delve into the world of self-presentation and how your appearance can be the difference between yes and hell no when it comes to women and the perception of others; in general. This area alone can boost your confidence and project that much needed sense of self-assurance to others.
Cultivating Your Inner Strength:
Aside from your obvious romantic reasons for wanting to become a more confident person, what about you? I mean, what are you truly passionate about. Believe it our not, I have found that it is much easier to acquire confidence in areas that you are naturally inclined to.
In my case, I am and have always been an athlete. I’m confident in my ability and achievements in that field. I am able to leverage the confidence energy from this area and let its waters flow into other necessary rivers of my life. I will lead you to this whale, so you can find this as well, and drink.
Going to the gym regularly and getting a good workout in, eating unhealthy food you have no business eating, and talking to women who give you prolonged eye contact; these are all habits. We will explore the power of habits and how they can be used to increase your confidence.
You have to realize that comfort zones aren’t really that comfortable if you want to achieve new achievements or have new experiences and outcomes in your life. While it may feel like turning the corner in downtown Chicago on a windy wintry day, the truth is the beautiful weather of summertime Chi is on the other side of you stepping outside of your comfort zone. The new zone that you enter will allow you to actually be in the zone, and you may just find that you stop getting friend zoned my friend.
I remember even before the Internet, in the days when your buddy actually had to be in the same room for you to play a round of video games together. I feel ancient even giving this reference, but there was a particular trigger that would happen in the fighting game, Mortal Kombat, I think.
When a new player joined the narrator would scream, “New Challenger” and bubble letters would flash across the screen. That animation always gave me a chill. It was a nervous feeling of the unknown possibility of winning and losing, but I enjoyed the new challenge.
You have to learn to nurture your inner fire and embrace challenges. In the game of confidence you don’t ever really lose, you just learn. The real win that you achieve every time is the experience, the opportunity itself, to have what may seem like a stone of a situation sharpen the metal of your confidence sword.
Communication and Connection:
Conversation truly is an art. Think about Michelangelo, the master painter, with his paint brush in his hand as he strokes across the Sistine chapel. What was he thinking? What was the mood? What was his groove?
This same theory applies to mastering the art of conversation. Every word is like a stroke of a paint brush on the canvas of the hearing parties eardrums. Approach your conversational art in a way that allows you to produce mouth pieces that are profound, rare, and could be worth money in an auction one day. This is the way.
Be a mason, a master builder when it comes to building relationships. Sometimes you have to play soccer when it comes to this. You have to understand that you may not always be able to score the goal.
Sometimes you may have to receive an assist. These assist come from your social circle of “teammates”. For instance, if you have a friend that just so happens to introduce you to a friend, and you all eventually become friends; goal!
In this section I will give you the tools to become a confident communicator and connect with others on a deeper level.
Confidence is a Journey:
Do you remember the first time you began crawling, walking, jogging, and running. Elementary schools are systematically set up in a way that takes you from kindergarten to 8th grade. Let us not forget about those four years of high school when you are leveled up yearly from freshman, sophomore, junior, and senior.
So, what’s my point? Where am I going with this reference? I’m going to the top of the world, like P Diddy! HA!
On a serious note though, what I’m saying in jess is the journey is everything. The importance thing to remember with confidence is that there are levels to this like Meek Mill said. PAUSE. HA!
Like with any journey what matters most is gaining and maintaining momentum. Embracing the life long journey of confidence building is no different. Along the rocky, bumpy, lumpy, and at times unpleasantly treaded road; you have to prioritize self-care and the jovial spirit of a life long learner. You do this by celebrating small milestones, taking time out to have cake, ice cream, and blow the candles out. You deserve it.
If you give it a chance and take the time and institute the discipline needed to consistently implement these strategies, you’ll no doubtfully cultivate lasting confidence that empowers you to live life to the fullest. This journey of self-discovery isn’t just about attracting someone special (although that’s a wonderful bonus!). It’s about becoming the most confident and authentic version of yourself. So, get ready to break free from self-doubt, embrace your strengths, and radiate confidence in every aspect of your life. Let’s begin!
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